What’s she like?
She’s loyal and a good listener, but likes to talk too. So in that respect she’s all about give and take. She likes her home but strikes out for adventurous nights occasionally as well.

What is she looking for?
She’s looking for a man, a little older than her and preferably on the taller side. He needs to like animals because she has a busy life that revolves around three horses and a dog, so any eligible gents need to be attentive and patient. It would be handy if he could deal with life’s little problems, likes spiders for example.

Where can I find her?
If you would like to know more about Victoria (and we think there’s every reason why you would) then register here or login to Love Horse here.

Victoria is waiting for you to get in touch.

Singles are turning on their computers instead of daytime TV as two of the dating sites with the most traffic found more people were logging in for love at 3pm rather than the usual busy time of 10pm.

Singles break the ice looking for love

Mysinglefriend.com says web site visits were up 55% on one afternoon, while Singles365.com says visitors were up by more than 25% on the same days last year.

January tends to be busy online as many people make a New Year resolution to find some romance.

TV property developer Sarah Beeny, founder of Mysinglefriend.com, says the snow was “proving to be an icebreaker for singles out there”.

“January has always been our busiest month, but this surge in traffic is unprecedented.”

The big increase in people using dating websites comes at a time when the industry is already booming.

Online dating set to generate £368 million

Forrester Research predicts the number of Britons paying to use online dating agencies is set to grow from 2.6 million people in 2006 to six million by 2012, creating revenues of around £368 million.

This surge is put down to more computer literate adults, the stigma attached to belonging to dating agencies has gone away, and the ease of joining up online makes people more comfortable and confident to take the plunge.

Less traditional dating websites also report more business during the cold snap.

IllicitEncounters.com – a web site for married people to look for an affair – says a record number of new members have joined – mainly from areas worst hit by the weather.

The firm says that in just under a week, 2,567 new members, 37% more than usual, signed up and as a result has needed to take on additional staff to cope with the rush.

“Just want to share with all Lovesail ‘wannabees’ that love appears in unexpected ways. I have been in touch with anon on this site for 6mths in friendship and we have chatted a lot on-line. On meeting, we surprised ourselves by finding that we had a great deal more in common than we expected and the man that came to dinner a week ago is still here and may well decide to relocate from abroad to live here. True to Cilla Black, “you might need your hat”! We both agree it seems too good to be true, but as in all fairy stories, there is a happy ending.” – Mummysailor

The online dating business is very competitive so don’t expect quick results unless you have the kind of budget that will pay for TV and magazine advertising.  Even then it’s possible to spend money in the hope that thousands of new members are going to register at your site only to find that none materialise.  After the advertising salesman has convinced you that this or that offer is never going to be repeated and that by handing over a large sum of money you are guaranteed to see returns within weeks, you sit back and wait for the crowds to arrive only to find that, in the end, you might just as well have set fire to that pile of cash for all the good that ‘special offer’ did for your business.

So start with things that cost nothing or very little.  They may take up some of your time and energy but that’s inevitable.  Success is often proportional to the amount of effort applied.

Choose the right domain name for your niche.  Before you even build the site, pick a domain name that is relevant to your target.  If you’re going to build a site about bikers, pick a domain name with the word ‘bikers’ in it.

Compose some unique copy and add it to the homepage.  Google and other search engines love orginal content above all other things so write something new and original and put it on your homepage.  Don’t mess around trying to spin someone else’s content, write your own.  It will help you to get to know your target market.

Swap links with relevant sites.  The important word here is ‘relevant’.  Choose sites that are in the same niche as your own.  Don’t blindly submit your site to any old directory, choose wisely.

Go easy on the advertising.  Don’t overload your site with Google Adsense or others adverts.  Are you trying to convince visitors to your site to register or drive them away to other sites?  If you want them to register then space on your page is better devoted to relevant content than advertising.

Make use of Googles free tools.  These are Google Analytics and Google Webmaster Tools.  Register your site and submit a sitemap using the Webmaster Tools, and keep an eye on your visitor stats and what brought them to your site by using Analytics.

Write some articles about your chosen niche. You can submit these to article repositories like EzineArticles.com and include a link to your site in the signature.  This will create a backlink to your site from a site with a high PR (Page Rank).

Use the right affiliate links.  Choose affiliate links that relate to your site and link with good keywords.

For more tips on dating site affiliate links visit: “Affiliate with these sites to earn cash commission”

For more tips and advice on SEO and marketing your website visit: “Search Engine Optimisation, Generating Website Traffic, Internet Marketing Strategies & Ideas”

Tools For Your SEO Toolkit:

iBusinessPromoter – a toolkit in one, IBP automates the submission process, checks page ranking, and manages your links and link swaps.

XML Sitemap Generator – generates XML sitemaps and can update them automatically. Best for standalone or self-hosted websites.

DatingDirect.com is part of the France based Meetic network which has sites in Germany, Austria, Belgium, Brazil, Denmark, Spain, Italy, Luxemburg, Norway, the Netherlands, Poland, Portugal, France, Sweden, Switzerland, Asia, and Latin America. Due to the size of the network and their experience within the industry they are able to offer a large and popular general dating website for the UK. In early 2009 they launched the DatingDirect Affinity program which is a new approach to matching profiles. In July 2008 the DatingDirect.com recorded the most individual visitors to a dating website in the UK and the Meetic group’s websites contain a total of 28 million profiles in Europe of which 5 million are based in the UK. This is a slick and professional dating website which takes its role and responsibilities very seriously. If you’re in the market for cyber romance then DatingDirect.com should be on your list of websites to try.

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